It's easy to tell if the man wants you marry you.nif that is his intention, you will not be the one always trying to make it work. He will be the one to do that. You will not always have to make excuses for him because you are his priority. Even if he is going through difficult times, he'll always try to reassure you that it won't always be like this. (micheal scoffield)
Hmmm. Nice and interesting comments here. To add, he won't give her a low self esteem by always putting her down and reminding her of all her wrongs and flaws. Rather, he'll try to help her up. If the result of a mans action keeps reducing your self esteem and value, it's proof positive he has no long term plans. We are talking about his future here; no man wants a worthless and valueless woman for a wife. If reducing a woman's value increases a mans ego, then that union is headed for the rocks cos it has no foundation of God's word. God's Word builds and doesn't tear down.
Sis Chiamaka,thank you for your comment,Signs to read from a brother who is getting close to a sister to know if the friendship(which is already a courtship in disguise) will end at the altar!There is no sign,even the devil has plenty signs,the only thing you can read in a guy,that is guaranteed is THE WORD OF GOD and the abilityof the guy to keep the word of his mouth!his promises.And probably after the endorsement of the Pastor,as step one,a time table is drawn
DATES are fixed,I don't believe in long courtship.What a guy is not ready for,he should not start at all.One of the things the pastor initiate is for the two to get to know their parents.It they get approaval from both parents then,The 2 must enrolled in Marriage counseling,And right in the marriage counseling,the teachers is confirming the wedding dates(traditional and white wedding).And things begin to move,so the lady knows her faith,she begins sharing testimony everywhere!thats the right way and mind you the Pastor must be carried along every step on the way!
A guy that keeps to every plan and any plan canceled or shifted is an agreement between Sister,Brother and Pastor,such will end at the altar.Thank You!
if a man wants to marry u,you'll see it. gradually your social circles with him start changing.. where you used to go to parties, and hang out with friends mainly, you might see him inviting you to family weddings, or get-togethers. or other dignified events, or he'll say i need to pick something up from an uncle or an aunt can you come with me.. Not that there will be formal introductions but he'll start showing you off casually just to sound out certain peoples opinions before he makes a formal move. It's this stage he'll start showin you off at church and your relationship becomes open in every sense, his pastor knows you, and all the relevant leaders.. When previously he'd invite you to church once a month, he now wats you there every service.
At this stage he's looking at how you fare socially , intellectually in formal mature circles , are you responsible , your attitude, what impression do people have of you, do you flirt with every male you see, do you seem interested or bored, etc..
this is a practical eye-opener of the sort of wife you may be.. if you pass this test, he just might pop the question.