Greatings in wonderful name our LORD Jesus Christ
I've been married for about 10 years and we still strugling to have children and recently as a husband i did too some decisions that angers my wife and she deide that she enough about our union. And there things which are done by my parents which makes her angry. Now i really dont know what to do as i love her so much and i've appologised so now i'm asking for help from you Saints.
Dear Magezi, thank you for seeking advice and from God's people the Church.
Let me address the issue of your expectations of children. Children are a gift from God and I believe God will bless you with children at the right time. You know sometimes anxiety can prevent a woman from taking seed. On the spiritual side, anxiety introduces doubt and doubt steals your faith and therefore your manifested blessings.
You will realise that because you may not have gotten married on a spiritually sound motive, your marriage is suffering because of the absence of children. Imagine how much more joy you and your spouse would enjoy if you were both preoccupied with glorifying God in your relationship irrespective of what the other person does or is unable to do. Think about this.
Did you know that according to the Bible, how God answers your prayers depends on how you treat your wife?
Man of God, seek the kingdom of God and his righteousness first, ALL these things including children will be added unto you. In 2012 the year of the word of God nothing shall be impossible unto you. Soak your pirates with the word, and when you shall declare a thing it shall be established. Pastor Chris said that this year with the word of God on our lips is like God talking! Cheer up, you have overcome !
my bro l belive u prayed and fasted and even seek leaders' attention bt now u need t understand th purpose of marriage 1st and bearing children is secondary reason fo marriage meaning yo marriage must not b focused on children bt helping each other to fulfil God's dream. now tht u want children, God always answers yo prayers, God gave Hanna, Abraham and in our lives today, am still hearing some testimonies of ppl who wer in th sam situation like yoz, u will definitely get th children,hold on to wat u hv received and believed.God will bless u